Emotionally Dysfunctional Fools!!

OMG I sooo need to vent!!!!!

What is wrong with Men? I mean seriously, there is a limit to the verbal venom(oh it's cherishing femininity actually as per them) that comes out of their mouth and its even worse when it's romanticized. I mean Dear God, there is a difference in appreciating a woman and leching after everything that has breasts and a vagina.

The thin line that demarcates this is RESPECT. Yes it's ok for a girl to flirt or be witty and equally responsive to the male gender but that does not make it right to batter her, harass her and disrespect her. It does not matter if you are highly educated or a high school graduate, if you earn millions or just pass by. If you come from a hot shot family or a mediocre one. A woman demands the respect of time, space and appreciation. This says more about the men, their mentality than anything else.There is a difference between healthy sexual communication and being dirty Casanova.

There is always a polite way to build pace and hint the other person, not make her feel cheap. Being lusted after is never always a good feeling, it depends on the person who gives it and equally on the person who receives it. How you bond with that person and what your comfort level is. How well your frequencies, thought process and value systems match.

Your actions always speak louder than words. Saying that you are a decent , one woman kinda man etc etc bla bla does not hold true when you are coveting any and everyone. Being rude, non responsive and acting like a Mr.know it all, does not conceal what you truly are. Apologizing on the other hand is like a concept that is not even an integral part of their system.

Education it seems has only empowered women and the male ego is still like a rabid disease. It takes an actual MAN to stand up for a woman, to love her and appreciate her the right way. One of the best ways is to give her the reassurance by admiring her the right way for her abilities and not how she looks.

Many self proclaimed romantics think its always easy to sweet talk girls maybe to reaffirm their masculinity. Trust me for real women that is such a turn off. Most often that's how these so called metro sexual men are...agreed some women like the attention and some want it badly. But what these men need to know is to only restrict their activities to such women.

Honestly, are there any decent men left?

Until next time,

Single and Waiting

Unknown!

This new feeling,

Don't know what it is,

Makes me sad, makes me happy,

Makes me feel alive again. 

I do get scared,

What if it doesn't work,

Preparing myself to see,

Grim and the dark beneath. 

A little happiness is what we all seek,

No demand just a humble request you see,

Long suffering upon your heart bestowed,

Just once make me feel, let me know. 

Show me how it is,

To live your life without any regret and pain,

With no hidden agendas,

No secrets and no shame. 

Let me for once be me,

So I can feel the wind and the breeze,

To see just how amazing it feels,

To be alive and fly indeed! 

Travel Monologue

A breath of fresh air as you travel through the old country side in India. You see a glimpse of lifestock, going about their regular work. As I go down the narrow lanes I see two kids drawing water from the handpump. I look and receive a smile which says a thousand words. 

I see a young man dreaming of the life he wants. A kid picking stones of the street to play. The elderly grouped together sitting on a charpai contemplating and busy in discussions. Women folk doing their household chores. 

The fact is that the serenity is lost somewhere in city life. There are no bageeche filled with gigantic trees to climb on. No lush green fields to run in. No time to stop and admire the beauty that there is filled in this country. 

There is loads of good the bad, the barren and prosperity. All rooted together. I think to myself how would it be like to live your entire life in this peace driven habitat. I am left with this thought but the thirst to explore more. 

An ode to Motherhood

My mum...is the best. Ya I knw everyone thinks the same way about their mom. But I knowww so. 

Through all the hardships that she has gone through. With my dad's postings all over, how she single handedly raised three girls. Its not easy being a single parent. She did that with work, taking care of us and home. 

How much she gave up for us to be who we are tdy, that will remain with me forever. Fulfilling all our wishes even before we spoke of them. Making sure we were exposed to creative outlets to make us adept in almost everything. 

Even though I might fight with her. She is my soul, her essence runs through my blood. There is so much I want to tell her and I will so, but the words that I wanna say most are - I love you!!

You are the reason I am what I am. Your encouragement, trust and faith in me drives me to get where I want to be. How I love your laugh or that I find serenity in your hugs. I love you mom!! 

Life

Life waits for no one,

You have to keep pace,

Cause if you miss a step,

You'll end up last in the game. 

Up's & down's, happiness & saddness,

Are the pawns in this great chess game,

You need to figure out your moves,

If you want to exist and prevail. 

We meet so many people,

But how many do we remember,

We make so many memories,

But how long do we treasure each. 

Life is the greatest teacher,

Wants nothing in exchange,

It only paves the way,

For you to be who you want to be one day. 

Life grants so much,

Be it good or bad,

It's upon the choices we make,

Which decide the wrong's & rights in the end.