Sei la mia rosa!

There are fringe benefits to being single. Along with the freedom to do whatever you want, investing your time and care on you, exploring the world and your soul, you also get to enjoy good yet diverse company and fun times almost every day and definitely on weekends. Now, I usually take my time to reminisce before I write about my experience but this date demands an immediate reveal.

I always was of thinking that dating older men would be boring, but oh my god, I loved the whole old school approach maybe because I ‘m an old soul myself. This gentleman, a bit not in my age frame asked me out and I’m glad I accepted. The fact that he flew from Mumbai for date number 2 left me feeling a bit special. No wait, a lot special.

What adds to the charm is the brilliant pick of restaurant, this amazing Italian joint, especially for a non-Delhite, left me in awe. The man likes to do his research and knows his stuff. Succulent food, alcohol free night was actually quite a change of scene. The best part though is the no risk, no games, no ego battles, zero show off, just good vibes and hearty company. The conversation flow is like wine pouring effortlessly from a carafe. The amount of travel stories this guy has is amazing. Such rich experience and amazing insight that keeps your interest peaked at all times. 

I always thought that there would be more challenges when you date an older guy but I guess the biggest perk is the conversation and the confidence especially sexual confidence level that definitely gets a thumbs up. A man with a broader perspective of life is such a turn on more so because of the fact that he is a knowledgeable and an articulate person. It was a delightful night of varied talks, hushed smiles and a pleasant evening. There is a kind of stability that comes with him, you feel at ease and totally calm ready to enjoy a great deal. The generosity, consideration and the helpful nature comes so naturally as you age to perfection I guess and the wit helps a lot. A LOT.

But the best part was the end of course, right out of the movies, a rose and some marvelous chocolates, which left me blushing. So, this is what it’s like to be courted!