The Dating World!

Went on a date after a really long time. Actually, now that I think about it, I guess it wasn't even a date. This guy asked me out for dinner and we met. You know when you're young and how it was, when you had a date you were so busy trying to impress each other that you absolutely forget to have a good time. You were so conscious of how you're hair is looking, of thinking if you have food stuck in your teeth or if you should keep your hand up or down or flick your hair at an appropriate time or whatever but the focus is just on giving off a great first impression.

But what happens when you're an adult and you go out for a date is another experience. I really see a person, I don't care if I crunch up my hair during the date. There is no need for first impressions and that's the best part about casual dating because you understand that if you didn't already give off a good expression you wouldn't be out on a date now, would you? 

The perspective changes now to more important things that you really should be on the look out for. That's the power of being immune to attraction or love after you've experienced the down side. It can be a downer because you see past the facade and you skip ahead to the fact that whether the date in question is really making some decent conversation or not, you end up concluding value of the date. You focus more on him than yourself, though it can be intimidating to the poor fella, act on keeping it low key but then again, go out and enjoy dating and having a really good time because than what it should be and not a contest to see who impresses whom. 




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