I love it when a man can hold my attention for more than a couple of days. I’m a sucker for an intelligent
mind especially one that makes me go WOW! Given that there are a lot of men out there who
have seriously amazing conversational skills but there are very few who can keep up with my outlook. A lot of men keep boasting intelligence via their words which
might not capture their intelligence well except maybe their literary skills. Such men end
up either annoying me with the ‘know it all’ attitude as they try to charm by pretentiousness wrt the amount of knowledge they hold. A proclivity
towards a mind that imprisons my curiosity and makes me want to converse
further and divulge into the mind of another is always a great opportunity to
expand my purview as well. With the amount of information that traverses
these days it’s a really attractive trait if someone can help you grow. The
allure towards a mind that captivates and sustains interest overwhelms me at times.
A lot of the times we don’t differentiate
between a wise man and an intelligent man, they are almost synonymous during
conversations. But what is reproduced out of experiences necessarily may not
conclude to the intelligence of a person. No doubt I’d go with the wise because
it leads to a more practical and a more refined approach to problem solving but
hey, a mind that ignites desirous feelings has to account for something. An
articulate man, who drives his point across in a manner that leaves you
questioning yours and even encourages you to gravitate towards the other side
of an argument is one genius. I’m the kind of a person who has an opinion
about a lot of things and mostly stand for what I believe in. A lot of times I’ve been
tagged domineering and I might just not sit well with others but what gives
me confidence is the fact that eventually when I hold my stance for a cause, what
happens or leads to the conclusion is what I was initially driving home.
When a person holds an opinion paired with accurate, logical and authentic information to back up
the statement made by him which eventually leads to a definitive point with an astute clarity is brilliant. Having such dialogues establish a platform where exchange of ideas is not just a random exchange anymore but more
of a parley between perspectives, experiences, and standpoints. An intelligent
man learns how to process information that is provided to him, perceived by him and works
towards understanding your point of view (right or wrong) and yet in the
process helps supplement your cognizance. How can this NOT be attractive?
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