The Booze out Sessions!

You always have that one friend who travels across the seas to meet you. Contrary to popular notion, it need not be a man, you don’t need one to have fun many a times. In fact a person should strive to become someone men want to have fun with (ummm in the most positive way possible of course). There are certain bonds that you establish over a period of time and then there are instant clicks but both have unpredictability or uncertainty attached to them. But isn’t it true that this uncertainty makes us a bit more real and a bit more human. I mean, what good are you if you don’t cherish those memories? I believe in love and friendship, call me a hopeless romantic or a true Gemini friend but I will never ever stop believing in these two.

The truthful nature of a person has always attracted me. People may consider it my weakness or my wisdom but I get to know when someone is lying but then thankfully I have met a handful of people who always have been honest and upfront with me. This doesn’t mean I was never robbed of my trust but I have always found my guardian angel. I’ve recently met some really interesting people. You actually are left pleasantly astounded when you go out and meet new yet diverse individuals. There are a lot of them with who you connect on echelons that are inspiring. It is an awesome feeling to be with someone who appreciates your company. Now, I have started believing that there are celebrations, crazy ass fun around the corner with friends like pub hopping, booze overdose, shopping, hanging out and some special moments with someone that all become a part of the good life.

A huge social circle is not only tough to maintain but sometimes it may render you without a “Best Friend”. Often with time though you tend to realize that quality matters over quantity any day, this statement holds true in almost all aspects of life now.  As far as friends are concerned, there is always that one person who puts in some extra effort or sometimes you just get lucky with some people who make sure that you live your life the way you are meant to. Somewhere I had lost the fun part of me, it was buried somewhere underneath. For someone to bring it out, brush the dust of your angel-hellish shoulders is always an intriguing plan. It isn’t a battle of favorites, well maybe just a little.

As you grow older, what brings you peace and a little bit of fun alters as well. You genuinely cherish long weekends, as hectic as they may be or as chilled out as they may be. I mean the friendship cannot be defined by a meticulous description. Every person you meet and become friends with, fashions a new definition of it. The bond that you establish with a person is what characterizes your friendship with them. Recently, a friendship bloomed with a person of stardom, a celebrity, yet a very candid person who I am now proud to call a wonderful friend. A person who I met out of a common experience and sharing of information, a trust was built with this person that stemmed into a magnificent friendship which both of us could not fathom. Akin past, similar encounters, alike souls often leads to a state where even though you meet a person for the first time, having not known each other for long but you are still so comfortable in each others presence. That’s the kind of friendship which promises to survive a lifetime. There is solace in knowing each other and there is ease that one human provides to the other. There is a sort of co-dependency when you share secrets, laughter, presents, fun times, suggestions all of it which leads to a path of alliance with a good and genuine soul.

As one is exposed to the world, you learn how to gauge a person, sometimes it’s via a tough and a rough experience but these are the times that steer you to wards restoring your faith in the universe. To take solace in the fact that it is indeed looking after you. You learn how to trust the universe and humanity again. You value the thoughtful little gestures that someone does for you. Even though this new friend of mine is a celebrity (name cannot be mentioned) but the fact that she is a grounded, humble, loving human being is all that matters. These are the kind of people you know you want around in your life. The ones who you can be yourself with, who you can have fun with, who you can trust and who you know will stay true to you. It really indeed joyful to have found another treasured friend to add to my treasure chest full of great friends, oh and of course let’s not forget the fun ;)