It's just a little crush!

Well I thought that when you get over your teenage years, you hope that you will get over crushes and finally have a mature relationship. Oh boy, was I wrong! so I was blown away when I figured out that I have been crushing over someone. I read somewhere that crushes are a roller-coaster, which end up haunting and tormenting you.

The funny thing about crush is that you don't even know the person well enough to establish the fact that you can, in the near future have a decent relationship with that person. He may not be the right one and some part of you kinda knows it but still there is there strange urge to have that person's thoughts. I often feel that the strength of human emotion is not more than the basic urge/ego of a person. For instance, contrary to the popular notion about girls I like the chase..to be the one who does the chasing. There is a kind of thrill attached to the chase that gets your blood pumping.

Even though you know for a fact that once the chase ends you see the person for who he is, which may not be pretty and may not be someone you wanna end up with but just the fact that he is inaccessible, that is the thrill. So you do what a mature person does, after endless conversations with friends and mindless conversations with yourself, you google the solution :p.

After reading about a 100 posts on "how to get over your crush"... I started researching for some alternate theory on crushes. The most interesting this that I came up with was the concept of "Karmic Relationships", it talks about how you are mindlessly attracted to a person even though you do not know them because in some lifetime there was some connection and when that person comes into your life you get in a state of Karmic shadow. The theory seems to be pretty popular and I will be researching it further because the whole past life connections has some serious repercussions in this life. So more on that later...

Among all the research , I realized that even though it hurts that someone perceives you for someone you are not, or judges you..you have to realize that IT IS NOT YOU!!! Clearly there are other people who like you hell love you for who you are and it does matter that if that one person treats you unfairly. What needs to be done is to focus on the good things, break that karmic connection ( researching more on this ) and then move on to a better person who gives you the respect you deserve and to a better life.