OMG I sooo need to vent!!!!!
What is wrong with Men? I mean seriously, there is a limit to the verbal venom(oh it's cherishing femininity actually as per them) that comes out of their mouth and its even worse when it's romanticized. I mean Dear God, there is a difference in appreciating a woman and leching after everything that has breasts and a vagina.
The thin line that demarcates this is RESPECT. Yes it's ok for a girl to flirt or be witty and equally responsive to the male gender but that does not make it right to batter her, harass her and disrespect her. It does not matter if you are highly educated or a high school graduate, if you earn millions or just pass by. If you come from a hot shot family or a mediocre one. A woman demands the respect of time, space and appreciation. This says more about the men, their mentality than anything else.There is a difference between healthy sexual communication and being dirty Casanova.
There is always a polite way to build pace and hint the other person, not make her feel cheap. Being lusted after is never always a good feeling, it depends on the person who gives it and equally on the person who receives it. How you bond with that person and what your comfort level is. How well your frequencies, thought process and value systems match.
Your actions always speak louder than words. Saying that you are a decent , one woman kinda man etc etc bla bla does not hold true when you are coveting any and everyone. Being rude, non responsive and acting like a Mr.know it all, does not conceal what you truly are. Apologizing on the other hand is like a concept that is not even an integral part of their system.
Education it seems has only empowered women and the male ego is still like a rabid disease. It takes an actual MAN to stand up for a woman, to love her and appreciate her the right way. One of the best ways is to give her the reassurance by admiring her the right way for her abilities and not how she looks.
Many self proclaimed romantics think its always easy to sweet talk girls maybe to reaffirm their masculinity. Trust me for real women that is such a turn off. Most often that's how these so called metro sexual men are...agreed some women like the attention and some want it badly. But what these men need to know is to only restrict their activities to such women.
Honestly, are there any decent men left?
Until next time,
Single and Waiting
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