OMG like women all over the globe, there is a world beyond your families and kids. Women often forget that they are an individual. So, this new chick at my work place is like in her 40s and of all that she has told me, she is completely dependent on her husband for everything, and I mean EVERYTHING! I mean there are somethings that you want your spouse to take care of but know that he has a lot of responsibilities too.
If he is equally sharing it or doing more, the least you can do is not be overbearing. How tough is it to book a cab for yourself, or work your bank or do shit for yourself? It's not that you can't, it's just that you choose not to.
Marriage, I've seen is hard work, it is often clouded as companionship and compassion yet consistent work is needed to remain passionate for each other. But in between all of that, amidst all of the craziness of everyday mundane schedule, that's when you need to keep yourself sane and fight for your individuality. You are more than societal labels. You are a person, who needs to find, own and live her own true self.
If he is equally sharing it or doing more, the least you can do is not be overbearing. How tough is it to book a cab for yourself, or work your bank or do shit for yourself? It's not that you can't, it's just that you choose not to.
Marriage, I've seen is hard work, it is often clouded as companionship and compassion yet consistent work is needed to remain passionate for each other. But in between all of that, amidst all of the craziness of everyday mundane schedule, that's when you need to keep yourself sane and fight for your individuality. You are more than societal labels. You are a person, who needs to find, own and live her own true self.
No comments:
Post a Comment