Someone comes into your life. You invite them in without bias or judgement because you feel a connection. It might be a physical or a mental connection. Maybe you understand them, maybe you see yourself in them, maybe you want to help them. There are some people who come uninvited and when they leave, there is no reason for you to cry. If you cry for someone, it surely points to the fact that they mean something. That you felt something when they were there.That's why you spend hours mulling over. Feel horrid. Act out. Depression follows. Hurt spews. And you presume the worst of life. Do they understand this? Maybe. Maybe not. But if you have to convince someone to stay and see through your path together because you feel it will be good, there is no point. They have to be willing. Connections will happen over time. It's always a joint effort to make sure some people stay in your life. Be it family, friends or lovers.
There are so many bad experiences that you go through in your life. Some you share and some remain your secrets. Some you battle and win. Some defeat you and you lose. Sometimes you rise from the ashes. Sometimes you die. But sometimes, someone comes and makes you see that life can be good again. It may not be another but you. You need to fight. People will hurt you and go. People will see you do good but never better than them. Who do you trust then? You!
When people don't realise that they are important to you and vice versa, you may cry, belittle yourself, beg but you shouldn't. If a simple misunderstanding or a single bad day makes you run or part ways, then let them go. There are people who want you to stay. Who check up on you everyday. Who make sure you fight. Who help you push your way through life. Wipe your tears, hug you. They should matter because to them you matter. It takes a while to understand this and realise your worth not through the eyes of the person who left you but those who stay.
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