How do you find him?

Every single time I watch P.S I Love You, I am torn. I cry for atleast an hour after the movie. When love taints your life and then you see such movies it brings out certain very contradictory thoughts. You pine for such love and then you think about how would you deal if you lost it. 

Giving away yourself to a person, who traps your soul, makes sure that you are happy even without him, how do you 1. Find such a man and 2. How do you let go? 

Love does make a difference in your life but only when you get the right kind. It's often difficult to distinguish between the love and ordinary love. Yes, there is ordinary love, it's when you want a certain kind of adoration based on a checklist. But how do you find that one love, torn between demands, frustrations of life, your expectations and your insecurities.

 How do you find someone to trust for life, one who wants you the way you want them, who makes sure ur insecurities die, who lets you know you are beautiful, who shares everything with you, who makes you happy by just being them and let it stay that way?