Is this the best you can do?

Running away presents such an easy way out of problems. It's actually the easiest thing to do. You turn your back and you walk away. Thats how easy it is. But does it help solve an issue or a problem. No. It won't ever fix anything because there is no communication. 

The thing about people is that they often feel that their actions are not understood or not seen through maybe because of irrational emotion or whatever the other might think. But is it so? No. Never. We are mature adults, well most are, we understand the consequences of every action and whether we like it or not, we deal with it. 

It can be so easy to close your eyes and pretend that the lion will not eat you or the train will not hit you when an encounter happens. That's the dumbest thing you can do. In relationships often this attitude is picked up by people. "Ghosting" as it is popularly called is the simplest thing you can do. One day just vanish. Easier to do when you think you don't leave any trace of you behind. This method of choice done by many, really what does it say about you. No one is anonymous. Everyone can be found out. But should it not be your moral duty to give some peace to the other. How is it that communication can solve the worlds issue and not this little thing. 

Answers are important, not because  they are needed but because they bring clarity to any situation. To feelings. For decisions. You cannot force apart things thinking they are not meant to be. Maybe they aren't. Maybe they won't but let time  do so. Every person we meet has a role to play in your life. Sooner or later that role comes to light. You wouldn't cry just for any one. You wouldn't make an effort for just any one. 

Why is it that communication has to have barriers? Why is it that running away is an ok option? Why is it that things are left murky? There are a whole lot of why's that need explaining. Eg, you like someone, they like you back. You start talking, you connect emotionally. That's the crux, you connect else it would just be another useless interaction. Forgotten sooner than you can sneeze. Then why is it that you can't talk to that one person who already knows your fears. You told them enough because you trust them anyway. So why is it that you have the urge to run away? 

I will probably never get why running away is considered the best option. How can you hurt a person more? Is it intentionally done? I will never know. I am a woman of my word. I stand by what I commit to, even if it kills me. So I never really understand this step. But this time around, bet my ass am going to find out.